LIFE AT TOMATO FAMILY: English
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Showing posts with label English. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

When I decided to start a new work (again)
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Honestly, I never thought that I would started this early. For sure, I realized that we need getting fat on financial issues in a couple next year. Yeah you know, the school fee of a preschool is a expensive ones and I don’t want make my husband take that responsibility alone. And of course for the next school levels which is have more expensive price. -,-

Yeah, I was grew up on a working mom family. My mum was a banker, my biologic mum was a seller door to door. Then my aunt, a second parents of mine, was a teacher since I don’t remember anymore LOL.

That culture always pushed me harder everyday since knew that our daily groceries was not in hundred thousand rupiahs anymore for a month but more than 1 million. And this girl, yeah, my girl already need new stuff like new diapers size, new shoes with new size, new dress for party and so on. And fyi, now she was already knew about snacking time. Sighs.

As for long time, I opened an online shop, that still didn’t covered all our needs. I need a permanent financial every month.

So here I am, every night, beside upload new product, I was hunted some new job. My husband was not refused my proposal. With any conditions of course such as the standard working hours, not shifting, not in the weekend, not too far away from our home, covered our preschool and daycare fee, my private needs and still have more to saving in our girl bank account.

And yeah, lucky me, one of the company that I applied for was called me for interview. The range location is about 12 kms or 20-30 minutes drive from our home. Yeah not too far but not so close, and yeah that the good reasons to didn’t ignore it. As fyi, my husband office just about 5 minutes to go. I didn’t expected too much for accepted as an employee in the first impressions. But yeah, I can learned new experience at least. I’m already didn’t work for almost 2 years. And for the last company that I worked for, I already joined for 3 years. Almost forgot how to introduce myself in an official way LOL. And yeah, I’m not young anymore, I really understand that company out there search for fresh talent not an middle experience like me.

Okay, so, wish me luck. I wish you were luck on your life too. xoxo

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Thursday, January 11, 2018

Ways to Make You Famous on Your Social Media
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Well, actually, there are too many people in my instagram feed that was so annoying. They posted everything, I MEAN EVERYTHING. Like, you would go to a bathroom and you (almost) showed off your private area, you've french kissed your partner but I know you didn't actually married yet (Yeah, u can called me classy), or you were back from your daily work then you just almost naked in your bed but at the same time you already have a kid that might be someday would see that feed literally.

Its always up to you when you were a teenager. But you have to think twice to posted it when you were already a worker of a some company or might be you were already have a kid at your home with full internet access.

Oh, yeah, may be, just may be, you want to get an attention from somebody. Then you were already on the next step! 😉

So, here I would share my opinion ways to make you famous instantly on your social media.

1) POST NEGATIVITY
Negativity more faster to get attention than positivism. Its real. For some people positive vibes are so boring. Everybody can do it. But negativity, we need more guts to make it happens. We have to ready and surrender people would judge us extremely bad.

2)BUYING FOLLOWERS, LIKER, AND COMMENTATORS
Everyone can buy anything now as far as they have money in their buckets. When you have a lot of followers, likes and comments, people would suddenly notice you. Even there no good goals from your feed. Just a bad influence for everybody but attracted a lot of people to come.

3) FOLLOW TRENDS
Trends not always fit with your body. But if you want to be famous, you have to follow the trends. Even it have to get credit someday, you have not really care about it. Trends make you famous even it was bad for your body.

Nah, that was my opinions for make you a hits maker on social media instantly. Do you wanna try?


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Sunday, January 7, 2018

Under Maintenance
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So, I have to maintenance my blog themes, side bar, widgets, etc. Since I knew that my previous blog was so colorfull that I'm in a earthy colors mood today. For you that already visit, read or just view my blog, might be you would see my widgets were still need any repair in here and there. Cause I'm a very busy fulltime mum :D.... Yeah, you know I don't hired any nanny for my baby, then I have to taking care my online shop and shipping the package every day. My free time aren't too much. 1-2 hour(its divided with upload new products and reply customer chat) a day if my baby got sleep or her dad helped me here. The rest is sleeping time or nap time, for build my energy a little.

Really need a holiday, really. But I need a lot of money to do that or this or thus, LOL.

SERIOUSLY.

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Thursday, January 4, 2018

Not a resolution Peps, a welcome for 2018
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Sadly, I’m not a kind of person who sets anything on paper, even I am a writer. Its funny but that makes me a listed person anyway. I’ve to solved one problem before solved another one.
But, the truth always revealed in the end. So, I think I don't really need any resolutions here. Just follow the way, through the faith, fight for my family as usual, its gonna be enough. Have none a huge resolution cause year would be passed as it was.

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My mind took me back for years ago. I’ve never wrote any resolution but I wrote my dreams in my paper. Actually it just happen cause a task from my philosophy lecturer on that day. The task is simple. Our class have to write 5 dreams in our journal and then we have to open it in 5 years later. No one took it seriously. And me too.

As I remember, I wrote these dreams:
  1. Have A and C driving license
  2. Move from this small city
  3. Have a good job
  4. Graduated in perfect time
  5. Married a good man
Sound silly and naive just like me on that year (2007), a girl with 19 years old who date her senior (actually me wasn’t married him anyway LOL).

I already forgot till I fought my journal when I was back to my hometown to took some original certificate on my old house, since I have to left that city followed my parents to Jakarta. When I read that dreams, I just laugh. But 3 of them already came true. No 2, 3 and 4. Believe or not.

Days goes by, years flew away, When everything goes well, I just forgot again that journal till today. When I wrote this.

And you know, that 5 dreams of me already came true. Something that I didn’t imagine would be happened. My philosophy lecturer told us on that day:

“Dreams or resolutions or goals is never happened easily. Took our universe to help you in the perfect time. May be when you write this 5 dreams, may be one of you will got it after this class ended. But the others may be need other days though years. So, kept that dreams safety. Opened it 5 years later. And you would be smile, one of them or may be all of them already came true. I hope you would repeated every 5 years to write your dreams. Its a simple prayed, but a huge hope. Good luck!”

So, for me, resolution is not write or think easily you pass a new year. After you dream it, tried to achieved it. Conscious or not, God already hear it to give it when you READY.

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